Why some networkers get great referrals, and other networkers suffer from a lack of prospects.

The answer is easy: guilt and embarrassment.

Think about it. When you are asked for referrals, what’s the first thing that comes into your mind?

You think,

“Oh, no. What if I recommend my friend and this salesperson is rude, offensive, pushy, dishonest or a jerk? Will I lose my friend’s respect? Rather than run the risk, I’ll just pretend that I don’t know anyone I can refer.”

We don’t want to feel guilty or embarrassed. That’s why we pretend we are hermits, orphaned, or extreme introverts.

The solution?

When you ask for referrals, make your prospect or customer feel comfortable by:

  • Explaining exactly the type of person you are looking for.
  • Explaining that you will be courteous and polite, just as you were with him or her.
  • Explaining what you will say or do with the referral.
  • Explaining that you will first send a courtesy letter/email to let the prospect know that you will be calling.

About the Author Tom Schreiter

Tom “Big Al” Schreiter has 40+ years of experience in network marketing and MLM. As the author of the original “Big Al” training books in the late ‘70s, he has continued to speak in over 80 countries on using the exact words and phrases to get prospects to open up their minds and say “YES.”

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